Relationships

Relationships I have been in since the kids mom left has been nothen but drama drama drama.

I know that when you are in a relationship it has to be one of the top priorities, but keep in mind that my kids are my #1 priority.

Me and my kids mother even tho we aren’t together still work hard to raise our children right. There are no restrictions when it comes to my kids seeing their mom. I don’t think there should be limits when it comes to a child seeing their parent. I believe there are too many separated couples out there that use their kids as bait or as just something to hang over there X’s head. I don’t play those games and parents that do that need to grow up and stop that crap. Kids are delicate and gentle, respect them as human beings. Because if you don’t that means you will never have the respect from your child and to be honest i wouldn’t see where you would deserve the respect if that happened.

I have been in 3 relationships since their mom left 5 years ago. I can understand that it would be hard to understand why my kids mom still came around to see her kids if I was in their shoes. That was the biggest issue I have had in those 3 relationships. Yes I always cared about how they felt about it but….making my kids happy means more to me than anything. I always tried to compromise and all but they always wanted it there way only and I couldn’t allow that.

Regardless of anyone’s opinion i cant change  what is right. There were many reasons why i ended the relationships i did. I had one girlfriend that demanded to be on my moms will and another that wanted just my son around and not my daughter and another that liked to slap me around all the time and had a gambling issue/cheater. So i had given up on searching. My kids are my number 1′s and that’s how it is.

I know most peoples views when it comes to meeting people online. I have always thought people was crazy for trying internet relationships. Then i met Hope. Hope is a 26 year old single mom of 2 girls from Australia.

We started talking about a year ago,and of course with my guard up I became interested in her. As i told myself this is crazy and there’s no way anything can happen between us something started to happen,something that i always thought was impossible and that was I was having feelings for this female online.

Then she started talking to my kids and i was with hers also,being very careful about it all we started making plans for her to visit. With the feelings of love growing inside myself for her I became very leary and scared, but i thought hell why not she could actually be the one.

I remember going down the escalators at the airport and the first time I placed my eyes on her. Its a feeling I will never forget. At that moment is when i knew the love I had inside was just validated. When we grabbed each other and hugged neither one of us could let go.

My kids were at home waiting for us, as we pulled up to the parking space i knew this was it. She was about to meet my children. I stood back as she ran up to them and hugged them tight. She spent a lot of time with them and i saw in their eyes that she was the one.

When she met my kids mom it was so wonderful,they both connected so easy and we sat Hope down and explained the way we were. She has been nothen but ok with the whole thing. Of course she had her questions and all just like anyone else would but i know for a fact she is in it for the long haul.

She is moving here in December with her girls and im so excited to be a big family, please wish us luck. To my Hopey I love you baby.

Hope, Morgan, and Mia